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GO FOR IT You might think you can do better at dating? You're right. Read this. Most people are total failures for the first approach. Why? Because they bring fear and unhappiness with them. The solution? Simply avoid this negative cycle: Unhappy because nobody loves you - Men and Women reject unattractive people - Being unhappy makes you unattractive - As you're unattractive - nobody loves you nor even smiles to you - And you're more unhappy...

Just get out of that vicious cycle. And stop being scared. Nobody's going to reject you, if you're OK. Be yourself and relaxed. Be proud of yourself. And approach new people. Look at them in the eyes, don't be shy, and talk to them. You will see that soon things will change. Because people will look at you in a different way, with different eyes. People will still be the same, but YOU will be different. In fact, YOU're beautiful and you have many things to share with others.

You're GORGEOUS

Seduction is about presenting the best you can. Outside and inside. Remember when you were with somebody? You had wings, and everybody was looking at you. Just because you were more confident and beaming with joy.

Many men and women fail at dating because they are acting the way they think they should and they're obviously wrong about how they should act.

We are human beings, not actors. If you look good inside and outside, you have nothing to hide. Moreover, when you don't feel confident, it's easier to act. You have the feeling things get better, but you're just digging your grave. YOU are the most fantastic human creature. Don't act. Be Gorgeous and sexy.

Just be YOURSELF, BE HAPPY

The secrets of meeting Men for Women or the secrets of meeting Women for Men is to be there, yourself, opened and attractive. As soon as you're going to hide something, you send wrong energy. People feel it and you are rejected. Negative signals are perceived as turnoffs. And you can learn how to be more attractive anywhere, anytime. People who like you will smile to you. Simple and easy. Some people might love you or feel attracted to you, but they won't smile to you because they're jealous or they're not happy with the fact that you don't like them as much as they do love you. Treat them with calm and patience because they are suffering. They will be your best or worst advertising, depending on how you deal with them.

And please, when you feel you met someone special, make sure you have another date or get the E-mail address or phone number. There's no need coming back home, excited by the fact that you met somebody. I am soooooooooooooooo HAPPY! Great! Do you really think it's that great if you have no chance to see that someone special, ever again?...

If you feel people really like you, just ask for the card as soon as possible. Or just say: - I might have to leave early, I'd like to see you again.

Then leave a blank. Most people hate silence in that kind of situation. Usually, they will offer you their contact name and telephone number right away. An you will have nothing to ask. Isn't it GOOD?